Archive for April, 2004

The 80/20 Individual

I’d like to thank all of you that helped me out with my “life survey” and as promised, here are the results of the questions (anonymously listed):

Question 1. What sort of thing really excites Chuck? What have you heard Chuck be most passionate about? (do not confine this to work-related matters)

Answer 1.

  • “Anything to do with comedy or entertaining friends, family and strangers. He is very passionate about his writing and video projects.”
  • “his children and his desire to be successful”
  • “Spending time with his friends…having something to look forward to (eg golf, trip Mexico & superbowl, party). His projects that he has control over. When you left cisco and starting your own business. Spending time with the kids when you don’t feel put upon. Sex, HD TV.”
  • “Internet stuff, and running his own business.”
  • “Starting a new venture and seeing it grow. Seeing his children grown into indivuals and celebrating their successess.”
  • “The Patriots; Kansas State; making movies, writing books, telling stories in general; his family; performing athletically; internet marketing”
  • “movies ? making them and watching them, his children, his wife, learning about anything, research ? his or others, the latest technology”
  • “Making money and golf.”

Question 2. Imagine that Chuck becomes famous in his lifetime. What possible things might he be celebrated for?

Answer 2.

  • “For making people laugh coming up with the next big comedy hit or novel.”
  • “definitely his sense of humor and bringing light to difficult situations.”
  • “Mensa Man, Risk taker, great father and provider.”
  • “Writing a humorous column like Dave Berry.”
  • ” For his ingenuity and his creative thinking. Hopefully for his contribution back into the community.”
  • “Winning an Oscar (director, writer, producer, or actor); becoming a famous writer; something humorous”
  • “His unique invention and the awards it has won.”
  • “Arrested for Internet Fraud. Autobiographical tale of dot.com hero to quilting guy”

Question 3. What is the single most distinctive thing about Chuck, that defines his individuality? What is most difficult and idiosyncratic about him?

Answer 3.

  • “With chuck it doesn’t seem like he is afraid for going what he thinks is funny he will do anything to get a laugh. The same thing sometimes he doesn’t know when to tone it down.”
  • “His humor is his most distinctive thing. He is very opinionated but not in a bad way, he enjoys good conversation and sometimes will play devils advocate just to get a rise out of the people that he is in a discussion with. I probably do the same thing.”
  • “He is funny and likes to hear people laugh. Has bi-polar tendencies. Can be laughing then screaming within moments!”
  • “His humor which is a little deep for most people. He can be moody, I wonder where he gets that from?”
  • “His intelligence and ability to think ?out of the box?. His mood swings are difficult to understand and to deal with.”
  • “His individuality is complex and not singular ? it?s the combination of humor; incredible loyalty, generosity, and support to friends and family; and a propensity to get uptight on occasion”
  • “The single most distinctive thing about Chuck is his loyalty and giving of himself to his family and close friends intertwined with a very unique sense of humor. Chuck can have a tendency to hold on to an issue on occasion and get a bit tense about it.”
  • “Great sense of humor, mindfull of useless pop culture. What is most difficult and idiosyncratic about him? Impatience of idiots, analness”

Question 4. What do you think Chuck would be happiest and most fulfilled doing?

Answer 4.

  • “Working with a sitcom and writing for a major publication.”
  • “Chuck is an entrepreneur and will definitely be happiest if he is defining his own way in the world. I don’t think this is necessarily tied to money but plain happiness.”
  • “Writing and being creative. On his own time without interruptions.”
  • “Writing ? either a weekly column or novel.”
  • “Building a business to the point where he only participates at a ?consultative? level but is able to gain an income that will support his family and enable him to do fun things.”
  • “Making movies”
  • “I think Chuck would have a great time behind the scenes of the film industry, still balancing his time with his family”
  • “Taking Jack LeBlanc to the big screen.”

Question 5. What one thing is Chuck best at, and better at than Anyone else you know?

Answer 5.

  • “He can make people laugh at themselves; he is always joking around and making people laugh.”
  • “golf? not!! I think that Chuck is driven to succeed and he has a very good business marketing mind. I think that Chuck has the ability to look at a business at a distance and realize its potential and can put a plan in action to make it successful. Not many people have this ability.”
  • “Writing and proof reading, when he is happy life is good.”
  • “Writing and being able to talk to the level of his audience. “
  • “Seeing opportunities, focusing on the opportunity and making it happen!”
  • “Golf ??????; understanding complexity”
  • “Chuck is great at educating himself on any issue! If he doesn?t already know something about it, he will use his resources to find out more about it.”
  • “Writing”

Question 6. What occupation or role do you think Chuck is best suited to?

Answer 6.

  • “This is a repeat question? Same comment as in question 4.”
  • “Self employed in a tech industry or working for a small company that allows its employees to be creative and put ideas into action.”
  • “Technical writing, internet marketing”
  • “Independent self-employed”
  • “Being an entrepreneur is the only thing he will be happy in. He is much to intelligent to work for someone else and to deal with the politics of a corporation.”
  • “Sit-com writer”
  • “Comedic writing ? book or script”
  • “TV Critic”

Question 7. Think imaginatively about a different arena or activity that Chuck might be excellent at, preferably far removed from his current job? Be creative and surprising, perhaps not entirely serious.

Answer 7.

  • “I think if any major publisher read his articles he could be the next Andy Rooney or Harvey Pekar (American Splendor).”
  • “Believe it or not I think that Chuck would be good in a social service environment. He jokes alot but is genuinely concerned with the welfare of others and wants everyone to succeed.”
  • “Writing comedy - screen plays”
  • “Literary critic.”
  • “Delivering seminars across the country on ?Escaping the Chains of Corporate Life to Earn Big Bucks?. He could bring his ?stand up comedian? skills to the seminar and illustrate the frustrations he faced in the ?corporate life? and what the steps are to venture out on your own. First is to face the fear of no income?..a paralyzing thought. I think he could be very entertaining. This could lead to VODs, books, etc.”
  • “Dick Van Dyke?s role from the Dick Van Dyke Show (lead writer for a sit-com)”
  • “Patriots statistician or the guy who comes up with the questions for Hollywood Squares”
  • “Director of Marketing for Gillette Stadium”

Question 8. In Chuck were to start a new venture that become extraordinarily successful, what might that new enterprise be? Use your imagination.

Answer 8.

  • “Try to get his writing out to the public to read, once the public reads his articles they will be infected by his wit, and humor and with his personal way he describes ordinary life.”
  • “A self help type of consulting business.”
  • “Cross-stitch…since you did quilting. Writing a novel”
  • “Selling and E-book that helps people be creative writers and creative thinkers.”
  • “Movie production company that has classes and provides funding for those people that should exceptional talent. This is also a way for people to understand what it takes to make a movie. The classes could start with the creative, story boarding, production, etc. There could be beginners to more advanced. Books, etc. would provide additional income. “
  • “Something that includes technology and creativity; production company”
  • “Some kind of interactive invention that incorporates television with the home computer.”
  • “Strip club.”

I really appreciate all the time and effort that went into this, and I’ve decided to get all of you a copy of “The 80/20 Principle.” The books will be in some time next week, and I’ll deliver them as best I can. Hopefully, you’ll get as much out of that book as I have and decide to take the same kind of messed up inward journey I’ve just started on.

Peace,

Chuck

Pat Tillman

I have very rarely been as touched as when I was at Smokey Bones and heard the news of Pat Tillman’s death in Afghanistan serving in the armed forces. This is a story of true bravery, and I have a tough time typing these words.

Whether you believe in what is going on or not with the US in the Middle East, Pat Tillman took a stand and decided that he needed to support the US by joining the military after the September 11th attacks. His personal sacrifice is one of the many that have happened in the war on terrorism during the last 24 months. Regardless of politics, when young men die in the honor of our country, I feel there is nothing more that I can do than try to support their decision and send my best wishes to their family and friends.

I didn’t know Pat Tillman, but I mourn his loss and wish that there our world was one where this kind of tragedy did not have to happen. There is nothing that should lead to the loss of such a brave soul, and people should realize that there is nothing that separates us that justifies taking another life.

People are people. All of you are my brothers. And just like you argue with your family, there’s no reason for the killing or the hate. It’s just life, and life is all that matters. I truly love all human beings, and no matter what I might say or do, I believe everyone has an equal footing on this planet. I’m not a religious man, but I do believe in love, and as the Beatle’s say, “love is all I need.”

Peace,

Chuck

Lip Service

There’s nothing like multiple cold sores to make your week. After my big guy’s golf weekend this past weekend (wow, I wrote “weekend” twice! - well three times in the same sentence), I will NEVER not put sunblock on my lips again. The entire foursome got some sun, but I’m guessing I’m the only one with the multiple lips scabies.

But, not all is bad this week. I’m working on figuring out my life’s purpose. Not sure why I waited until I was 40, but better late than never. I have a bunch of people filling out a short survey about me to see what other people think I might be good at, in addition to answering the same survey myself. I’ll be posting this on the site in a couple of days, after I have all the answers back.

The kids are out of school this week (Spring vacation), and the pool was opened up this week. The kids tried to get in, but the water was only 60 degrees Fahrenheit, so they got out pretty quickly. But, hopefully with the heater going, we’ll have some warm enough weather to get in this weekend.

Enough rambling. I’m looking forward to putting together my life plan, and to sharing it with all of you bastards. And you know who you are! Thanks for helping for my “core” group, and if anyone else has any input, let me know.

Peace,

Chuck

What a Weekend

Well, the birthday bash is over, and combined with the Easter holiday, I’m pretty sure I put on about 10 pounds this weekend. I also lost about 5 years off my life from excessive libations (if you know what I mean).

Guess I truly am getting old. I had to get up early on Sunday morning for the Easter Bunny’s visit, and I wasn’t all that happy with the hippety-hoppity bastard. The kids wanted to get their Easter eggs, and all I wanted to do was get a few more minutes of shut-eye. Oh well… I’ll sleep when I’m dead.

Getting some things done today, so only have a couple minutes to type. Hope you all had a happy and healthy weekend (whether it was a religious holiday for you or not), and I’ll talk to you later.

Chuck

Today is My Birthday (sort of)

I’m having a birthday party today for my 40th birthday. My real birthday isn’t until Tuesday, but what’s the difference - old is old.

I didn’t think 40 would bother me much, and for the most part it hasn’t (although Michele has told me I’ve been pretty cranky lately, or as she likes to put it, “ass-holish”). But, what the impending big “four-oh” has forced me to do is take a look at what I’ve accomplished with my life.

For the most part, I’m doing OK. I’ve got a great wife (who loves me despite being “ass-holish” more than I should), two wonderful kids who don’t drive me batty all of the time, a family that is sane (for the most part), a nice house, and enough money to be able to start a business at home doing something I really enjoy for the first time ever.

But, even with all of this going for me, I’m a little annoyed at my lack of focus over the past 20 years. I’ve had so many ideas and goals that I haven’t achieved, that it’s a little depressing to dwell on the lost opportunity. So, I choose not to.

Instead, I am looking forward to a better tomorrow. Or, more accurately, I will be trying to live in the here and now. And, I’m not going to be putting up with anymore of my excuses. Things like, “I’ll get to it when I have the money,” or “There’s always time to do that later.”

Bullshit! There is no later, and there is no before. There’s only now. And now, I’m giving myself a great big kick in the ass. I’ve cleaned up my office, reloaded my Franklin-Covey planning software, and purchased MindManager Pro (which is a really cool tool for organizing your thoughts). What I’m doing is giving my head a thorough Spring cleaning, and am not going to go back to my lazy ways.

Like many people, I’m easily distracted by the next big thing. I’ve come up with literally hundreds of ideas for my business in the last six months, and I’m excited about each and every one. But, after attending John Reese’s Triple Your Profit! workshop about a month ago, I’ve become focused on completing things and setting myself strict timelines.

So, I’m going to clean out my head by Mind Mapping all of my ideas for later consideration, and concentrating on completing some of the projects I have in a state of limbo. And that means I’m going to be blowing out my quilting business empire. It’s sounds weird when I say it out load, but I’m going to be the quilting business king within the next 6 months, and nothing is going to stop me.

I’m also going to finally finish my novel. Using some solid time management priniciples, I’ll carve out an hour or two a day to put into my novel. It may not be the ideal scenario, but at least I’ll be making progress on something that I enjoyed immensely, and people really responded to while I was writing it.

Anyways, that’s enough of my touchy-feely bullshit. I’m going to be posting some other info, as well as some fun stuff, over the next few weeks. I’ve decided that I’m going to use my Blog as a journal to try and get some of this stuff out of my head, and to vent some steam. I don’t know if anyone is going to read it, but that’s not the point. This Blog is for me, and if you don’t like it, I don’t give a hoot. If you do, feel free to drop me a note (chuckbutt@chuckbutt.com).

Happy Birthday to me…

Chuck

Just Checking In

It’s been a long time since I’ve posted anything to this site, so I figured I might as well put something up, and today, it’s some thoughts on success, the Internet, and life in general.

Since September, I’ve been working full time to create a business selling information on the Internet. I’ve met some incredible people, and learned more in the last 7 months than I had in more than 15 years of corporate high tech marketing. And just for the record — most corporate marketing sucks!

I spent a good portion of my career in start-ups, and I thought that what we were doing was a heck of a lot better than most of the big companies. And maybe it was. But compared to direct response marketing, it’s like putting a newborn baby in the ring with Hulk Hogan (or perhaps The Rock for the younger readers).

And the Internet is the ultimate direct response vehicle. At no other time in history, has the opportunity to make a substantial living on your own — and I’m talking six-figure plus — been so readily attainable to so many. The Internet is a truly limitless source of business, with built-in capabilities to test and refine your business plan on a daily (or even hourly) basis.

Of course, this is not to say that making money on the Internet is easy. You need to have some sound business skills, and you must also be willing to work. I’ve been mucking around the Internet for over a year now, and I can tell you that you will need to open your brain to a flood of new information if you are going to make it. But, because I’ve been plugging away at it for so long, and learning from my mistakes, I’m finally at the point where my business is ready to take off.

Of course, great mentors have been there to help me along the way. First, it was people like Dan Kennedy, Jeff Paul, Ted Nicholas, and Jay Abraham. I’ve been studying these living legends for more than 10 years, getting a thorough grounding in the techniques of direct marketing. Later, it was people like Marlon Sanders, Declan Dunn, Jonathon Mizel, and Terry Dean. And lately, I’ve had the distinct pleasure to meet and work with Alex Mandossian, Kirt Christensen, Bruce Safran, David Garfinkle, Armand Morin, and Joshua Shafran.

I was in Frank Kerns’ Elite Marketing Club, and Frank not only provided a huge amount of value for his Club members, but he broadened my perspective on what Internet marketing could be. I will forever be grateful to what Frank did for me personally, and I just wish he wasn’t going underground to avoid having all his truly brilliant ideas ripped off by everyone.

In addition, the Nitro Marketing boys — Matt Gill, Kevin Wilke, and Eric Owens — took me under their wings and gave me an awesome opportunity to earn and learn on one of their Nitro Projects. I learned more in 6 months with Nitro than I had learned in the previous 10 months on my own. Without their help, I never would have been able to make the huge leaps in knowledge I’ve made recently. And, they know how to have fun while running one of the biggest Internet empires around.

And, recently, I attended John Reese’s “Triple Your Profits” event in Orlando. That was a truly life-changing event for me, and I know I’ll be tripling my profits many times over during the course of this year. John Reese proved that you can have an event that is fluff-free and delivered more than promised. After having attended, I would have paid much more to learn what I did, and just to hang around John. Thanks once again, John! (And by the way, if you want to learn something about Internet marketing, sign up for John’s Marketing Secrets ezine at http://www.marketingsecrets.com/newsletter.html).

The point of this long-winded rant is that if you want to have some success outside the corporate world, it’s available. Not only is it possible, it’s almost a certainty if you spend the time in the trenches and find the right mentors. There’s very little you won’t be able to do if you decide that’s what you want.

Peace,

Chuck