I’m having a birthday party today for my 40th birthday. My real birthday isn’t until Tuesday, but what’s the difference - old is old.
I didn’t think 40 would bother me much, and for the most part it hasn’t (although Michele has told me I’ve been pretty cranky lately, or as she likes to put it, “ass-holish”). But, what the impending big “four-oh” has forced me to do is take a look at what I’ve accomplished with my life.
For the most part, I’m doing OK. I’ve got a great wife (who loves me despite being “ass-holish” more than I should), two wonderful kids who don’t drive me batty all of the time, a family that is sane (for the most part), a nice house, and enough money to be able to start a business at home doing something I really enjoy for the first time ever.
But, even with all of this going for me, I’m a little annoyed at my lack of focus over the past 20 years. I’ve had so many ideas and goals that I haven’t achieved, that it’s a little depressing to dwell on the lost opportunity. So, I choose not to.
Instead, I am looking forward to a better tomorrow. Or, more accurately, I will be trying to live in the here and now. And, I’m not going to be putting up with anymore of my excuses. Things like, “I’ll get to it when I have the money,” or “There’s always time to do that later.”
Bullshit! There is no later, and there is no before. There’s only now. And now, I’m giving myself a great big kick in the ass. I’ve cleaned up my office, reloaded my Franklin-Covey planning software, and purchased MindManager Pro (which is a really cool tool for organizing your thoughts). What I’m doing is giving my head a thorough Spring cleaning, and am not going to go back to my lazy ways.
Like many people, I’m easily distracted by the next big thing. I’ve come up with literally hundreds of ideas for my business in the last six months, and I’m excited about each and every one. But, after attending John Reese’s Triple Your Profit! workshop about a month ago, I’ve become focused on completing things and setting myself strict timelines.
So, I’m going to clean out my head by Mind Mapping all of my ideas for later consideration, and concentrating on completing some of the projects I have in a state of limbo. And that means I’m going to be blowing out my quilting business empire. It’s sounds weird when I say it out load, but I’m going to be the quilting business king within the next 6 months, and nothing is going to stop me.
I’m also going to finally finish my novel. Using some solid time management priniciples, I’ll carve out an hour or two a day to put into my novel. It may not be the ideal scenario, but at least I’ll be making progress on something that I enjoyed immensely, and people really responded to while I was writing it.
Anyways, that’s enough of my touchy-feely bullshit. I’m going to be posting some other info, as well as some fun stuff, over the next few weeks. I’ve decided that I’m going to use my Blog as a journal to try and get some of this stuff out of my head, and to vent some steam. I don’t know if anyone is going to read it, but that’s not the point. This Blog is for me, and if you don’t like it, I don’t give a hoot. If you do, feel free to drop me a note (chuckbutt@chuckbutt.com).
Happy Birthday to me…
Chuck
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